The weather where I am is crazy!! I mean crazy. The way I dress now, one would think I were in Russia and each time I go to bed, one thing comes to mind; weather for two.
I would give anything to spoon with a guy all night buy nah! I'd rather cover myself with the the blood of Jesus in addition to my duvet.
Co-habiting is also known as "couple's life" in Nigeria. When I was in university, the pattern was very predictable. The love birds few weeks into the relationship would start spending nights together then either the girl would drop her bra, the next day it's her hairbrush, the next her top till she moves in finally.
Most of my relationships were LDR but the guy I dated in my school knew my stand because I told him point blank that I would have none of that. The highest we did was spend the night together.
The truth is over the years, I've talked to lots of guys and I asked them if they'll eventually marry that girl they are cohabiting with and lovelies, 99% gave me an emphatic NO and the premise is "why buy the cow when I can have the milk for free?".
As much as we might like to brand them heartless, statistics have shown that most times, it is we the female that will always lose out (aren't we mostly disadvantaged when it comes to most of these issues anyways?) so why not use your head and avoid becoming an addition to that statistics??
I honestly do not know what advantage(s) lie in cohabiting because most times, the girl has to cook, clean etc and the only thing the guy might have to offer is maybe free house, stipends and sex which most times would be forced whether she feels like it or not and for someone like me who has scoin scoin, we go fight tire because I can't be performing wife duties for a boyfi so I'd rather not engage in it to avoid stories that touch.
So now, it's over to you dear readers. What are the advantages, disadvantages etc of cohabiting? Ever done it??
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